Be a Rebel (when it comes to writing your story and carving your path)!

My use of “rebel” is not what you might think.  I’m not talking about being aggressive or confrontational, rioting, or resisting authority.  But I AM talking about being a rule breaker when it comes to your life.  We’ve all been given a set of rules throughout our life that we subconsciously carry with us, acquiring more and more as we have experiences.  These rules define us and many of the choices we make, and they’re often in the form of expectations, obligations, and “shoulds”.  They’re limiting and often contribute so much to low confidence and living inauthentically. 

Being a rebel in my terms is about being self-empowered, self-aware, fiercely confident, and in charge of your life. 

It’s about questioning everything. Carving your own path. Going after what you want.  Never settling. Rejecting limiting thoughts and beliefs, old programming, other people’s opinions, and anything that doesn’t feel right to YOU and taking radical responsibility for your life.  Letting go of the need to fit in and be liked, and learning to love and respect yourself.  Trusting yourself. Trusting life. Giving yourself permission to be who you truly are, no matter what. 

When you get to this place, which is 100% available to you, you go from confused, overwhelmed, fearful, anxious, lost, playing small, trying to fit in, doubting yourself, and avoiding taking risks to:

• Doing whatever the hell YOU want

• Saying what you mean

• Leaving the job you don’t like

• Bravely taking action (even if you feel fear)

• Authentically expressing yourself

• Leaving relationships that don’t serve you

• You stop explaining yourself

• You stop blaming people

• You own your choices

• You understand your happiness and fulfillment is up to you

• You tolerate a hell of a lot less BS

• You demand respect (and respect yourself)

• You love yourself and in doing so, have so much more love to give

• You stop trying to control

• You trust your ability to learn, grow, succeed, and get back up when you fall

• You’re aware of your thoughts and their impact

• You support other badass confident people

• You manage stress and anxiety better

• You become your favorite version of you

• You stop letting fear run your life

• You spend less time worrying, comparing, settling, and more time happy, flowing, and thriving.

So how do you get there?

It’s actually easier than you think, especially if you’re motivated and ready to do the work (and having someone supporting you along the way certainly doesn’t hurt!).  The first step that will illuminate SO much for you, is clarity.  Developing self-awareness around your rules, patterns, mindset, and beliefs, and REALLY figuring out what you want, not what anyone else wants, but what YOU want, will help you see where you may be holding yourself back, where you’re not living to your potential, where you’re allowing fear to limit you, and so much more.  While this might sound daunting, this is a wonderful place to get to.  Once you’re crystal clear, there’s no going back!  Once you’re aware, you can powerfully choose. 

From here you can begin making your plan to become the most confident, rebellious version of yourself, who no longer settles, goes after their dreams, and lives life intentionally. 

If you’re ready to live more confidently and question anything that’s not serving you, and you’d like support in getting there, this is what I do (and love), and I’d love to support you.  I’ve created a signature confidence coaching methodology to guide you through ALL that is clarity (and confidence obv), including self-awareness, visioning, goals, etc. and digging into thoughts, identity, and so much more.  Schedule a free consult so we can chat!

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